Are We Treating Symptoms Instead of Treating People?

In today’s age of technology, we have made remarkable advances in many areas of life. However, one area where many people feel progress has been limited is healthcare. If you visit a doctor today, you may notice that before or during your appointment, you are asked several questions that may not seem directly related to the reason for your visit.

One question that is commonly asked is, “Have you been vaccinated?”

I recently accompanied my wife to a doctor’s appointment. During the examination, her doctor asked whether she had received the COVID-19 vaccine. My wife replied, “No, because I have a compromised immune system.”

The doctor responded, “That is exactly why you should get the vaccine.”

The exchange left me thinking about how healthcare providers approach patient care and whether enough consideration is given to each individual’s unique circumstances. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms or standardized recommendations, many patients would like to see a greater emphasis on treating the whole person and understanding their overall health situation.

A note for publication: if you’re discussing vaccines or medical recommendations, readers generally respond better when personal experiences are clearly presented as personal observations rather than as medical conclusions. This can help keep the article persuasive and credible for a wider audience.

I asked AI if doctors were using a template that asks patients about vaccinations and medications, and this was the response.

Yes, in many healthcare systems doctors are prompted by electronic health record (EHR) software to ask patients about vaccinations and other preventive-care topics. This is not usually a script that every doctor must follow word-for-word, but rather reminders, alerts, or checklist items built into the patient’s chart. (TechNet-21)

Common examples of EHR prompts include:

  • Vaccination status
  • Cancer screenings
  • Smoking status
  • Physical activity
  • Medication reviews
  • Preventive health recommendations (MedicalDirector)

Many systems are specifically designed to alert providers when a patient may be due for an immunization. The reminder might appear as a pop-up, a task, a chart flag, or a note within the patient’s record. (TechNet-21)

That said, it would not be accurate to say that all doctors are using the same template or that they are required to ask about vaccines in every situation. Practices use different EHR systems, customize them differently, and physicians still exercise their own clinical judgment. In some offices the question may come from a nurse or medical assistant during intake rather than from the physician. (TechNet-21)

For your article, a balanced way to describe it might be:

Many medical practices now use electronic health record systems that generate reminders about preventive care, including vaccinations. As a result, patients may be asked about their vaccination status even when they are visiting for an unrelated concern. While these prompts are intended to support preventive healthcare, some patients question whether standardized checklists can sometimes overshadow individualized care.

Modern physicians often use electronic medical references and decision-support software

Modern physicians often use electronic medical references and decision-support software that provide guideline-based recommendations for diagnoses and treatments. While these tools can help standardize care and reduce errors, some critics argue that an over-reliance on protocols may sometimes limit the focus on the unique circumstances of individual patients.

In the case of my wife’s appointment, I felt that the doctor placed greater emphasis on the recommendations provided by the medical software than on my wife’s individual health circumstances. Since her condition had been stable, I questioned whether the potential risks of vaccination had been fully considered in relation to her specific situation.

I have also personally known several individuals who reported experiencing serious health problems after receiving the vaccine. According to their accounts, when they sought answers from healthcare providers or the vaccine manufacturer, they felt their concerns were dismissed or not adequately addressed. These experiences have led me to question whether patient concerns are always given the attention they deserve.

When Technology Supports—But Doesn’t Replace—Clinical Judgment

Modern EHR systems often provide physicians with evidence-based medication recommendations and safety alerts, including information about side effects, drug interactions, and contraindications. While these tools are designed to improve patient safety, they generally summarize the evidence rather than presenting the underlying clinical trials. As a result, physicians must still use their own clinical judgment to determine what is appropriate for each patient.

The Patient Behind the Prescription

Consider a medication such as Farxiga (dapagliflozin), a prescription drug commonly advertised for the treatment of Type 2 diabetes, heart failure, and chronic kidney disease. According to its prescribing information, Farxiga works by helping the kidneys remove excess sugar from the bloodstream through urine.

The medication has been approved to help improve blood sugar control in adults and children age 10 and older with Type 2 diabetes. It is also prescribed to reduce the risk of hospitalization for heart failure and to help slow the progression of chronic kidney disease in certain patients.

Like many prescription medications, Farxiga offers potential benefits, but it also carries important risks that patients should understand. Serious side effects can include severe infections, dehydration, low blood pressure, and, in rare cases, a life-threatening bacterial infection of the genital area known as necrotizing fasciitis of the perineum. More common side effects include urinary tract infections and yeast infections.

This raises an important question: when a medication is recommended, how much attention is given to the individual patient’s overall health, lifestyle, and risk factors? While modern healthcare technology and clinical guidelines can help identify effective treatments, every medication involves weighing potential benefits against potential risks. Ultimately, the goal should be not only to treat a specific condition but also to consider the health and well-being of the whole person.

Final Thoughts

Modern medicine has provided remarkable advances that have improved and saved countless lives. Physicians bring years of education, training, and clinical experience to the care they provide, and their recommendations should be taken seriously. At the same time, every patient is unique, with individual health conditions, concerns, and goals that deserve careful consideration.

Treating the whole person means looking beyond a diagnosis or a list of symptoms. It means considering a patient’s overall health, medical history, lifestyle, and personal circumstances when making healthcare decisions.

Patients should feel empowered to be active participants in their own care. Asking questions, seeking clarification, and learning about prescribed medications can help individuals make informed decisions alongside their healthcare providers. Resources such as Drugs.com and other reputable medical information websites can provide valuable information about a medication’s uses, benefits, side effects, warnings, and potential interactions.

Ultimately, the best healthcare decisions are often made through a partnership between an informed patient and a trusted physician. By combining medical expertise with personal responsibility and research, patients can take a more active role in protecting and improving their long-term health.

Resources to Help You Make Informed Healthcare Decisions

The following resources can help you become a more informed participant in your healthcare journey. They provide information about prescription medications, potential side effects, treatment options, and alternative approaches that you may wish to discuss with your healthcare provider.

By educating yourself, you can better understand the potential benefits and risks of a treatment and explore whether there may be natural, lifestyle-based, or complementary approaches that could support your overall health. In some cases, these alternatives may be less costly, carry fewer risks, and offer additional long-term benefits when used as part of a comprehensive healthcare plan.

Remember, any changes to your treatment plan should be discussed with a qualified healthcare professional to ensure they are appropriate for your individual needs and medical condition.

Brighteon.com “We’ve trained BrightAnswers.ai on millions of articles on natural health and wellness, including thousands of hours of interview transcripts with health experts, millions of pages of content from holistic health websites, and hundreds of thousands of scientific papers on nutrition, herbal medicine and healing modalities.”

— Mike Adams, AI developer of all the ‘Bright’ platforms and tools

Drugs.com Mission Statement

“To empower patients with the knowledge to better manage their own healthcare and to improve consumer safety by assisting in the reduction of medication errors.”

Drugs.com is the largest, most widely visited, independent medicine information website available on the Internet. Our aim is to be the Internet’s most trusted resource for drug and related health information. We will achieve this aim by presenting independent, objective, comprehensive and up-to-date information in a clear and concise format for both consumers and healthcare professionals.

https://www.petermcculloughmd.com Dr. McCullough® is an internist, cardiologist, epidemiologist holding degrees from Baylor University, University of Texas Southwestern Medical School, University of Michigan, and Southern Methodist University. He manages common infectious diseases as well as the cardiovascular complications of both the viral infection and the injuries developing after the COVID-19 vaccine in Dallas TX, USA.

Your Health, Your Responsibility

At the end of the day, no one has a greater stake in your health than you do. Doctors, specialists, and healthcare providers can offer valuable guidance, expertise, and recommendations, but you are ultimately responsible for the decisions you make regarding your health and well-being.

Take the time to ask questions, understand your treatment options, research medications, and learn about lifestyle choices that may impact your health. Being an informed and engaged patient can help you work more effectively with your healthcare team and make decisions that align with your personal goals and circumstances.

Your health is one of your most valuable assets. By taking an active role in your healthcare, educating yourself, and advocating for your needs, you can become a stronger partner in the decisions that affect your quality of life and long-term wellness.

You Are A Strong Warrior

In the Bible Judges chapter 6 there is a passage where an angel appears to Gideon and calls him a strong warrior, but Gideon does not believe the angel. God calls us the apple of His eye but our experience tells us He is wrong.

Each day we have a choice to believe the lie that we can’t do it, that we are not enough, that God is not big enough to help us. God wants us to have the life we want as long as it in line with His will.

We are always looking help from an outside source and we struggle to find that help because we look everywhere but towards God. God is calls us to trust Him, not based on our past experience but based on who He is. He is the God who knows us inside and out, loves us even when we blow it and He sent his son to died for us.

When you read the story of Gideon you will see that the angel is patient with Gideon and the angel even allows Gideon to test and see if this is really God calling him to battle.

If you are feeling helpless today and don’t know how to move forward today, ask God to help you. You are his beloved creation and He longs to help you live a life empowered, with and on purpose and in alignment with your gift and talents.

If you need help to do email me at mikestewartcoaching@gmail.com. I will give you some tools to help you make the steps to live a life you love. You are not alone anymore, you have my support and God’s support.

Judges 6:12-15

11 The angel of the Lord came and sat down under the oak in Ophrah that belonged to Joash the Abiezrite, where his son Gideon was threshing wheat in a winepress to keep it from the Midianites.  the angel of the Lord appeared to Gideon, he said, “The Lord is with you, mighty warrior.”

13 “Pardon me, my lord,” Gideon replied, “but if the Lord is with us, why has all this happened to us? Where are all his wonders that our ancestors told us about when they said, ‘Did not the Lord bring us up out of Egypt?’ But now the Lord has abandoned us and given us into the hand of Midian.”

14 The Lord turned to him and said, “Go in the strength you have and save Israel out of Midian’s hand. Am I not sending you?”

15 “Pardon me, my lord,” Gideon replied, “but how can I save Israel? My clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my family.”

16 The Lord answered, “I will be with you, and you will strike down all the Midianites, leaving none alive.”

17 Gideon replied, “If now I have found favor in your eyes, give me a sign that it is really you talking to me. 18 Please do not go away until I come back and bring my offering and set it before you.”

If you would like to read the complete story you can do that at https://www.bible.com/bible/111/JDG.6.NIV

The support you need and have been searching for is available to you. There is a strong warrior inside you that is available to empower you too conquer and situation you are facing today.

It is time to take the necessary steps to stop being a victim of your circumstance, set aside your fears and fight like a warrior. With God’s help you will be victorious.

Please contact me and let me know how I can support you. Email at mikestewartcoaching@gmail.com me or click the chat button or use the contact form. https://familyhealthbydesign.org/contact-us/https://familyhealthbydesign.org/contact-us/

The Laws of the Mind Lead to Peace

MKE Week 8 – The Laws of the Mind Lead to Peace

Seven weeks have flown by and what a ride it has been. This week I have been combining the Master Key Experience readings with the book Standing Tall which was written by Mark Januszewski, specifically Verity #3 material and the results have been mind blowing. 

I have read the verity each morning and evening and completed the exercises the limiting beliefs have begun to disappear.

Imagine what life can be like when you live it without any negative thought or limiting beliefs.

Reading the MKE lesson and Imagining the Battleship’s origin from the ship all the way back to me and is such a powerful exercise that allows me to apply the same principle to any part of my life, both areas that are working and areas that are not working.

Each day this week have been a serendipity days. 

Monday- I had a project where I installed a new Caption phone for a client and both he and his wife were so healthy. He is 93 and his wife is 89. What made the project so wonderful is that I prayed that I could be a blessing to this couple in my interactions and the training I provided for them and when I was done the gentleman told me that this was one of the best experiences he had working with a vendor, that made my heart glad.

Another experience I had on Monday was when I brought the batteries in to a shop to have them tested the gentleman told me there was no charge.

I has some of the same type of experiences on Tuesday and Wednesday.

Reading the MKE lesson, the mental diet, and applying the law of substitution are all valuable tools that with practice bring about amazing results.

The Law of substitution: This law is simple; the mind can hold only one thought at a time and through practice you can substitute negative thoughts with positive thoughts.

Verity 3 has made a huge impact on my outlook on life as day by day limiting beliefs begin to disappear just by doing what is asked in the exercise each day.

I can’t wait to see what the result will be after the 2 weeks is complete but I have rated and seen the fruit and it is delicious!

If you would like to learn more about the Master Key Experience you can get on the list for the next upcoming course HERE.

If you would like a copy of the Mental Diet you can get a copy HERE

If you are interested in the book Standing Tall you can order a copy Here.

Have a great week!

Mike

Love Transforms How We See Ourselves

Loving others unconditionally begins with learning to love oneself.

As I read Scroll 2 of the book The Greatest Salesman in the World this week I made a new discovery, I realized why I shy away from people sometimes when I am in public. I find myself comparing my appearance, my success, my status to other people and see myself as inferior.

As I made this new discovery I realized I had the power to shift my inferior thinking of myself to love for people. I began to see a mother with her child lovingly caring for them. I saw a husband caring for his wife who is recovering from an illness, and as the week continued I saw love all around me. I felt the love shared by those around me well up in myself and I discovered a new level of love for myself.

I began to see myself as a unique, marvelous one of a kind creation who is unconditionally loved by his creator and guided by his loving hand to live life abundantly.

Thank you Mark and Davene and the MKE guides for all you do to equip each student to live life in such a way it spreads love and acceptance. Our world needs this more than ever.

If you would like to learn more about the Master Key Experience visit https://masterkeyexperience.com/

Blessings on your journey.

California Leaders Stop Wasting Money On Programs that Don’t Work

California leaders must stop wasting money on programs that don’t work. The current leadership of California has turned away from the what is right for the people they govern. They were taught by their parents what is right and what is wrong and have chosen wrong in order to obtain more power and wealth for themselves and those they serve while letting more families become homeless and the cost of living increases.

I remember when I was 8 years old, I would get up early on Saturday mornings to watch my favorite cartoons like Whacky Racers, HR Puff N Stuff and others. Whacky Racer had a character named Snidely Whiplash and each race he would cheat to try and win the race but in the end his actions would always comeback and cause hime to lose. Each cartoon had a built in lesson of how the villain’s selfish, hurtful, greedy behavior ultimately ended up hurting only themselves.

Many leaders today know what is right but for some reason have chosen to forsake the people that put them in office for power and prestige, they make rules for the people they lead but don’t follow the rules. They feel they are above the law.

This is nothing new, it has been happening since the beginning of time.

In the Bible, the prophet Elijah warned multiple kings to return to the Lord and avoid idolatry: 

Elijah and King Ahab

Elijah warned King Ahab that God would punish his land if he didn’t stop idol worship and get Israel to return to God.

Elijah and King Jehoram

Elijah sent a letter to King Jehoram of Judah, warning him that God would punish his people for following the ways of the kings of Israel and murdering his brothers.  

Elijah and Ahaziah

Elijah told King Ahaziah that he would die because he turned away from the Lord, and the king was struck down by the Lord.  

Elijah was a prophet from the region of Gilead, who lived about 30 miles from Samaria, the capital of Israel. God performed many miracles through Elijah, which are recorded in the books of 1 and 2 Kings.

Today there are governors, congressman, senators, and many others that have turned away from doing what is right for the citizens, they right laws that allow the killing of children after they are born.

I live in California and over the last 10 years the entire culture has changed the leaders have regulated small businesses so much that many have closed or moved out of the state to more business friendly states. The homeless rate has skyrocketed and yet our leaders seem to be numb to the issues.

California’s homelessness rate has increased due to a number of factors: 

Land-use regulations: California has stricter land-use regulations and zoning laws than other states, which makes it harder to build housing. 

Housing costs: Home prices and rents have steadily increased in California, making housing unaffordable for many. The median rent for a one-bedroom apartment in California is $2,200 per month, which is much higher than the $1,200 per month median rent in Texas.  

Lack of affordable housing: California has a shortage of affordable housing, which has left many people living paycheck to paycheck and at risk of homelessness.  

Stagnant incomes: Incomes have stagnated, while housing costs have increased.  

Systemic racism: Racism is a factor in the homelessness crisis.  

COVID-19 pandemic: The economic impact of the COVID-19 pandemic has contributed to the homelessness crisis.  

Why has the leadership of California abandoned its people? They are making more money every year while Californians are having to deal with loss of jobs, higher food prices, gas prices and higher taxes.

Our leaders in California have no understanding of what life is like for the average family. As busineses continue to leave the state there are less jobs for the people and homelessnes continues to increase.

Current salaries (effective December 4, 2023)

  • Governor $234,101
  • Lieutenant Governor $175,576
  • Attorney General $203,343
  • Controller $187,280
  • Treasurer $187,280
  • Secretary of State $175,576
  • Superintendent of Public Instruction $203,343
  • Insurance Commissioner $187,280
  • Member, Board of Equalization $175,576
  • Members, State Legislature $128,215
  • Assembly Speaker/Senate President Pro Tem $147,446
  • Minority Floor Leader $147,446
  • Majority Floor Leader $137,832
  • Second Ranking Minority Leader $137,832

Past salaries of elected officials, 2022-2023

  • Governor $224,020
  • Lieutenant Governor $168,015
  • Attorney General $194,587
  • Controller $179,215
  • Treasurer $179,215
  • Secretary of State $168,015
  • Superintendent of Public Instruction $194,587
  • Insurance Commissioner $179,215
  • Member, Board of Equalization $168,015
  • Members, State Legislature $122,694
  • Assembly Speaker/Senate President Pro Tem $141,097
  • Minority Floor Leader $141,097
  • Majority Floor Leader $131,897
  • Second Ranking Minority Leader $131,897

So what is the solution? I believe is education. the people who are homeless don’t need more mental health services, they need hope, temporary shelter and skills to start their own business which will empower more people to do the same. We need to stop giving hand outs and start using the resources that are already available.

Some ways we can help the homeless:

  1. Provide temporary housing with amenities.
  2. Medical resources bringing in medical students who need hours.
  3. Provide food from food banks and brining in people who are training to be chefs, and cooks.
  4. Provide sustainable gardens that the residents maintain so they have access to fresh fruits and vegetables.
  5. Provide job training skills.

An article titled Where is all the money going for homeless in California? The homeless population has grown despite spending billion trying to solve the homeless problem.

As noted in PRI’s research, troubling indicators include the fact that the preliminary point-in-time homeless counts for most California counties show total homeless populations growing in most California counties despite the billions spent on Project Homekey, and so-called “affordable housing” projects built with Project Homekey funds costing upwards of $1 million per unit to build.

“Armed with this latest analysis, lawmakers should ask tough questions about why the state is continuing to throw billions at a program that isn’t getting the job done,” Jackson and Winegarden wrote.

If lawmakers read No Way Home, PRI’s book on California’s homeless crisis, they’d know that private charities do a far more effective and efficient job meeting the unique needs of the homeless population and helping to get them off the streets than any government program, no matter how well-intentioned.

It is obvious that the lawmakers are not the answer to our homeless problem, it is up to each one of us to do what we can using the skills we have to help those who feel helpless and need help. Give just food or money won’t solve the problem. We need to find out what their immediate need is, if it is medical care let’s stop giving them drugs for their issue and instead find the root cause, help ease their physical or emotional pain and teach them how to help themselves. We all have something we can give.

A great example is https://echofl.org/ which provides an array of services to help people get their life back. Why don’t we have these programs in California?

California spent billions on homelessness without tracking if it worked

It’s time to move those resources to create programs that work and if our current leader won’t listen vote them out of office. Each on of us has a responsibility to help any way we can. Don’t give up on those who are down and out, you or one of your loved ones may find yourself in need in the and we need programs that work and measure results so we can adjust what is working and change what is not working.

Join me in spreading the word. share this article with your fellow friends and family in California together we can revamp the system, create programs that work and elect leaders that will be responsible with the people’s money.

Leave a comment on how any ideas you may have that could help us stop the downfall of our beautiful state.

Christmas is a Time To Restore Relationships

Why should I spend my precious tim during the Christmas season restoring relationships? That is the question many are asking themselves, finding excuses to not say I’m sorry looking for evidence to prove they were right and the other party was in the wrong.

Photo by olia danilevich

During the recent pandemic we experienced the separation from our loved ones and many never got to even say goodbye to a loved one, see their child get married, watch their grandchild be born and it was gut wrenching to hear all the sad stories and not be there for the ones we love.

When it really comes down to it at the end of our life and we stand before God and the question he will ask is what did you do with the gift I gave you in the form of my son Jesus? The only thing we will look back on is the things we could have changed and chose not to because we were so consumed with our own problems.

https://www.yourtango.com/2017304807/20-inspirational-quotes-about-relationships-and-fighting-keep-love-alive

Do you know of a friend or family member that you had a falling out with, have feelings of regret for not calling them? You want to call them but then you start to pickup the phone you think about how they might respond so you put off doing it, why? Is it because you don’t want to have to say you are sorry for your part in the disagreement even though you know that just by calling them you have the possibility to make a difference in the relationship.

Would you be willing to take a chance this year and make that phone call and tell them you miss them and want to go to lunch, dinner or some other activity where you can spend time together?

The best tool I found to restore a broken relationship is to create an intention before you make the call, imagine in you mind the most excellent outcome, keep your focus on how you want your relationship to be, make love the key. When we come from a place of love we can never fail.

All solid relationships are based on love, open communication, and authenticity and when these three are present there is no topic off limits, no challenge we can’t overcome.

1 Corinthians 13

What relationship all you commit to restore between now and December 31st?

Are you willing to ask that person you care about to forgive you for the things you said and didn’t say?

Will you commit to put the past behind you are start fresh?

What is in the way of making that relationship the way you want it to be?

Photo by Greta Hoffman

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Merry Christmas!

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Making Family Time A Priority Can Be A Challenge – 5 Ways to Make it Happen

Making family time a priority today can be a real challenge but with a little creativity, it is possible.

On Oct 16th I had the extreme pleasure to go on vacation with my lovely wife for one whole week in beautiful Lake Tahoe, CA. We have owned a timeshare in Lake Tahoe for over 3o years and we look forward to being able to get away for one week every other year and unplug from the hustle and bustle of life. What is so wonderful about this trip is we have no agenda with the exception of some of our favorite spots we love to visit.

One of my favorite spots to visit in the Lake Tahoe area is the Camp Richardson Nature Center and what makes this place so special is that is causes you to slow down, look and listen to the sights and sound of nature. One-stop on the trail has you sit on a bench and listen to how the wind blows across the grass and the sound it makes and during that time when I am still I can hear several different creatures around me moving in the bushes and the water. Creatures like ducks, lizards, and birds, one time we even saw a bald eagle but what makes this experience even more special is that I get to be in this beautiful place with the love of my life Valerie. The feelings, sounds, and sights stay with me long after vacation because I can recall the memory at any time and be right back on that bench hearing the wind and other sounds.

Courtesy of Tripadvisor.com

These are the memories I will never forget. I can still remember being in Carmel, CA with Valerie 32 years ago walking down Ocean Avenue and turning into a little alleyway where we stopped in at least 5 different shops to look and their creations and recall the scarf with the Stewart tartan Valerie gave me as a gift from the Scottish shop or the smell of the coffee walking by the Carmel Valley Coffe Roasting shop.

Photo courtesy of USDA Foerest Service

Five of the ways to make Family Time a priority

  1. Add family events to the monthly calendar first and work all other things around them.
  2. Revisit places you went when you were dating.
  3. Get the kids involved by allowing them to make some suggestions.
  4. Don’t be afraid to ask if you need help to make it happen.
  5. Take photos of each trip and create a photo album.

Life is too short so be sure to make time to unplug as a family or as a couple, you won’t regret it.

Happiness Is An Inside Job – You Have the Power To Make Yourself Happy

Happiness is an inside job, it is not a fleeting feeling it is created by our own thoughts.

Have you ever said to yourself I’ll be happy when we get our new car or I’ll be happy when I get that promotion? Many people make their happiness dependable on an outside source and don’t realize that happiness starts on the inside, it starts with what we think about.

Some people postpone their happiness all their life just waiting for that one thing instead of taking the time each day to really think about what makes them happy and focus on those things each day.

What if you could wake up each morning, be grateful for all the good things in your life, and be open to all the other blessings that await you that day? What would that feel like? How would that shift your focus from all the outside temporal things you believe would make you happy to living in a constant state of happiness and gratitude all the time.

I know what you are thinking, how is that possible? Can it be that I have the power within my own mind to make myself happy, it’s true you do have that power, you were just never taught how to access it until now.

There is a simple formula I learned years ago but never applied until a couple of years ago where you write down the things you want to attract in your life on a 3X5 index card. The income you want to have, the car you want to drive, the dream home, and even that special someone and you read that card each morning and each evening with feeling and imagination as Earl Nightingale explains in the audio The Strangest Secret In The World and you can listen to the message on Youtube here.

I have been following this formula for over five years now and it has changed the way I view life, I am happier than I have ever been. All it took was a little extra time out of my day in the morning and in the evening, and by applying this formula I created a new habit of generating my own happiness. Think about that for a moment millions of people every day are waiting for something to make them happy and they have everything they need to make it happen within their own mind.

Are you ready to be happy? Are you willing to put in the work to change your life, exchange old habits that don’t serve you for habits that empower you to pursue a life of purpose? You won’t regret it, you are worth it, you deserve to be happy and use your gifts to make others happy. There is a quote by Zig Ziglar that says “You can have everything you want in life if you just help enough other people get what they want”. I live by that motto every day.

Listen to the Strangest Secret, follow the formula and come back and leave me a comment.

Remember you have the power and it has been inside you all along.

Why Can’t We Discuss Our Differences Instead of Arguing? 5 Ways to Talk About Issues With Respect and Compassion

Why can’t we discuss our differences instead of arguing? Why can’t we discuss difficult issues with respect and compassion?

I had a very interesting experience last week when I attempted to post a link to an article on Facebook written by Ty and Charlene Bollinger. The article shared CDC Admits to Inflating COVID Death Count with the intention to share the article with my Facebook friends but I received the response in the photo below and my post was blocked by Facebook’s software. That is a subject for another article.

The real interesting thing happened when I posted a photo of the article instead. My friends began to make comments like “that is fake news” and “You are misinformed” but not one person asked the question “Why do you believe that?” There was no dialogue about the facts or an attempt to understand each other’s position and that is plaguing our entire nation. Why can’t we be open to hearing another person’s experience or opinion when it differs from our own?

We must learn how to discuss our differences and also teach our children to do the same. We all believe what we believe based on our experience and our source of news but what if we had the tools to ask compelling questions with the intention to learn from one another.

Five Ways to Talk About Issues with Respect and Compassion

  1. Listen with the intention to understand.
  2. Ask compelling questions to understand more about them and their experience.
  3. Be self-aware of what triggers you and why.
  4. Focus on solutions and how to solve the problem together
  5. If you can’t agree, agree to disagree and move on.

By practicing the five ways listed above you can become part of the solution instead of part of the problem. You can be part of a generation of world changers that are not threatened by opposing views or beliefs but welcome them. You can be an example to your children and equip them with the knowledge they need to become a powerful communicator at a time it is most needed.

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

I would love to hear about your experiences on this topic.

Mike